Pr\u00edde si k v\u00e1m bli\u017e\u0161ie, predo, nech\u00e1 sa hladka\u0165\u2026 a potom zrazu uhryzne. Bez varovania, zdanlivo \u201elen tak\u201c. Prv\u00e1 reakcia b\u00fdva \u0161ok, niekedy aj pocit odmietnutia: \u201e\u010co som urobil\/a zle?\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V skuto\u010dnosti ale ma\u010dacie uhryznutie vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine pr\u00edpadov nie je agresia. Je to sp\u00f4sob komunik\u00e1cie. Nie dokonal\u00fd, nie v\u017edy pr\u00edjemn\u00fd – ale pre ma\u010dku ve\u013emi jasn\u00fd.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Porozumie\u0165 tomuto spr\u00e1vaniu je k\u013e\u00fa\u010dom k lep\u0161iemu spolu\u017eitiu a pokojnej\u0161iemu vz\u0165ahu medzi \u010dlovekom a ma\u010dkou.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udc3e Ma\u010dky nehryz\u00fa bez d\u00f4vodu
Ma\u010dky s\u00fa zvierat\u00e1, ktor\u00e9 sa sna\u017eia konfliktom sk\u00f4r vyhn\u00fa\u0165. Ne\u00fato\u010d\u00ed \u201ezo zlomyse\u013enosti\u201c.
Ke\u010f uhryznutie pr\u00edde, obvykle mu predch\u00e1dza jemn\u00e9 sign\u00e1ly, ktor\u00e9 \u010dlovek \u013eahko prehliadne:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
u\u0161i sa st\u00e1\u010daj\u00fa dozadu alebo do str\u00e1n
chvost sa za\u010dne r\u00fdchlo pohybova\u0165 alebo cuka\u0165
telo stuhne
poh\u013ead je intenz\u00edvnej\u0161\u00ed, s\u00fastreden\u00fd
Pokia\u013e tieto sign\u00e1ly zostan\u00fa bez odozvy, ma\u010dka siahne po zrozumite\u013enej\u0161ej forme ozn\u00e1menia: po uhryznut\u00ed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\ude3c Uhryznutie po\u010das maznania: naj\u010dastej\u0161ie a najmenej pochopen\u00e9
Toto je klasick\u00fd scen\u00e1r: ma\u010dka pradie, vyzer\u00e1 spokojne, zost\u00e1va u v\u00e1s\u2026 a zrazu uhryzne a od\u00edde.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ine pr\u00edpadov ide o prestimulovanie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Niektor\u00e9 ma\u010dky znes\u00fa maznanie len kr\u00e1tku dobu, najm\u00e4 na citliv\u00fdch miestach \u2013 chrb\u00e1t, boky, brucho.
Pradenie pritom nie je v\u017edy znakom pote\u0161enia. M\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 aj sp\u00f4sobom, ako sa ma\u010dka vyrovn\u00e1va s miernym nepohodl\u00edm alebo nap\u00e4t\u00edm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Uhryznutie potom znamen\u00e1:
“U\u017e sta\u010d\u00ed. Potrebujem pauzu.”<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83e\ude7a Ke\u010f uhryznutie signalizuje boles\u0165 alebo zdravotn\u00fd probl\u00e9m
Pokia\u013e pokojn\u00e1 ma\u010dka za\u010dne n\u00e1hle hr\u00fdz\u0165 pri dotyku ur\u010dit\u00e9ho miesta, zbystrite.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ma\u010dky vedia boles\u0165 ve\u013emi dobre skr\u00fdva\u0165. Reaguj\u00fa a\u017e vo chv\u00edli, ke\u010f je nepohodlie v\u00fdrazn\u00e9.
V takej situ\u00e1cii uhryznutie nie je trest, ale ochrana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00e1hle zmeny spr\u00e1vania \u2013 podr\u00e1\u017edenos\u0165, \u00fanik pred dotykom, hryzenie bez zjavn\u00e9ho d\u00f4vodu \u2013 s\u00fa sign\u00e1lom, \u017ee je potrebn\u00e1 v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ia pozornos\u0165 a pr\u00edpadne odborn\u00e9 vy\u0161etrenie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83c\udfe0 Teritorium, hranice a pocit bezpe\u010dia
Pre ma\u010dky je priestor z\u00e1sadn\u00fd. Niektor\u00e9 miesta v dom\u00e1cnosti pre nich znamenaj\u00fa pokoj a istotu \u2013 ob\u013e\u00faben\u00fd vank\u00fa\u0161, roh gau\u010da, pelech.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ak sa ma\u010dka c\u00edti:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
zahnan\u00e1 do k\u00fata
zablokovan\u00e1 bez mo\u017enosti \u00faniku
ru\u0161en\u00e1 vo \u201esvojom\u201c priestore
m\u00f4\u017ee reagova\u0165 prudko. Uhryznutie v tomto pr\u00edpade nie je osobn\u00e9. Je to reakcia na situ\u00e1ciu a snaha znovu z\u00edska\u0165 kontrolu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83e\uddf6 Ke\u010f sa hra zmen\u00ed na probl\u00e9m
Mnoho dospel\u00fdch ma\u010diek hryzie preto, \u017ee si u\u017e ako ma\u010diatka zvykli hra\u0165 sa s \u013eudsk\u00fdmi rukami.
Vtedy to p\u00f4sobilo roztomilo. Len\u017ee zuby \u010dasom zosilnej\u00fa \u2013 a zvyk zostane.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ne\u00famyselne tak ma\u010dku u\u010d\u00edme, \u017ee \u013eudsk\u00e1 ko\u017ea je s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou hry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Rie\u0161en\u00edm je:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
presmerova\u0165 hru na hra\u010dky
nepou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 ruky ako \u201ekoris\u0165\u201c
pri uhryznut\u00ed hru okam\u017eite ukon\u010di\u0165
\ud83d\udc9e Jemn\u00e1 uhryznutie ako prejav bl\u00edzkosti
Nie ka\u017ed\u00e9 uhryznutie je varovanie. Ve\u013emi jemn\u00e9 \u201e\u0161t\u00edpnutie\u201c, bez nap\u00e4tia v tele, bez \u00faniku alebo sy\u010dania, m\u00f4\u017ee by\u0165 s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou soci\u00e1lnej komunik\u00e1cie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pripom\u00edna spr\u00e1vanie sa medzi ma\u010dkami pri starostlivosti o srs\u0165.
Rozdiel pozn\u00e1te pod\u013ea:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
sily uhryznutie
celkov\u00e9ho postoja tela
kontexte situ\u00e1cie
\u26a0\ufe0f Pre\u010do by sa uhryznutie nemalo ignorova\u0165
Aj ke\u010f v\u00e1s to vydes\u00ed, sna\u017ete sa zachova\u0165 pokoj.
Pokia\u013e uhryznutie poru\u0161\u00ed ko\u017eu, je nutn\u00e9 miesto ihne\u010f vy\u010disti\u0165 a sledova\u0165.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hlavne ale plat\u00ed: uhryznutie je inform\u00e1cia.
Hovor\u00ed, \u017ee je potrebn\u00e9 nie\u010do zmeni\u0165 \u2013 sp\u00f4sob maznania, hranice, prostredie alebo pozornos\u0165 vo\u010di sign\u00e1lom ma\u010dky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Porozumenie tomuto spr\u00e1vaniu neznamen\u00e1 v\u0161etko bez v\u00fdhrad prij\u00edma\u0165. Znamen\u00e1 to u\u010di\u0165 sa lep\u0161ie po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 to, \u010do ma\u010dka nedok\u00e1\u017ee poveda\u0165 slovami.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udc49 Sledujte na\u0161u str\u00e1nku, dajte like \ud83d\udc4d, zdie\u013eajte tento \u010dl\u00e1nok a pom\u00f4\u017ete \u0161\u00edri\u0165 povedomie – m\u00f4\u017ee to zachr\u00e1ni\u0165 \u017eivot v\u00e1m aj va\u0161im bl\u00edzkym.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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